Did you meet on vacation? Does either of you work far away or did you have to leave for university? If you find yourself in these situations, you know that managing a long-distance relationship is not always easy. The distance certainly doesn’t help, creating some fears and insecurities and sometimes useless discussions. So here are some tips to overcome a situation in which geography is against you, trying not to give up pampering, passion and sharing.
Think positive
As Benigni said: “Stop thinking about what could go wrong and start thinking about what could go right”, is a great way to focus on the benefits and not the difficulties of the relationship. Furthermore, long-distance stories are more frequent than you think: according to Istat data they are about 8% of the total, so rest assured that you are not alone, there are another 4 million people separated by kilometers! There are many other positive sides: distance creates a tension that strengthens passion and opens the door to the imagination and being “alone” gives you the opportunity to have some time for yourself, to be more independent and free.
No to prejudices
It doesn’t necessarily have to be a rip-off just because you don’t see each other on a daily basis. Indeed, if a boy wants to continue seeing you despite the distance, it can only be a symptom that he really cares. And try not to be too jealous, establish a relationship of trust and sincerity with your partner, you will mature both as people and as a couple!
Technology makes everything easier
Long-distance relationships have always existed and were much more complicated, but now thanks to smartphones and new technologies everything becomes easier and faster. Messages, Skype calls, Facetime, there are many methods to be able to be in touch even if not physically, just find the one that best suits you!
Learn how to flirt on social media
Love on social media explodes between likes and smiling smiles. The next step is sharing which implies a well-defined message: we see it in the same way, we have the same interests, we are made for each other and then who knows…
Sharing
Between car sharing, home sharing, coworking, ours is the age of sharing and exchange; how to apply it to your relationship? Just connect via smartphone or computer and you’re done. You can watch a movie together or if you have a common passion, start a blog.
Don’t be afraid of confrontation
All couples have discussions, it’s normal. If something makes you angry, don’t be afraid to have a dialogue, but remember to moderate your tone (as much as possible) because words from a distance or spoken face to face have a different weight.
Try to see each other as much as possible
Arrange trips to see each other as much as possible. If you can’t spend much, there are various alternatives: find the train or plane offers and as soon as you are sure of the date, book ! Remember that another valid possibility may be to find yourself halfway. By doing so you will not affect your finances too much but at the same time you will have the opportunity to enjoy the days in the company of the person you love.
For the most nostalgic moments give way to Pet Therapy
If you feel an extreme need for pampering, don’t forget that a pet could be a valid substitute. So no more worries, fears and anxieties: try to live your long-distance relationship to the fullest and if you’re not sure it will work, maybe it’s time to try and find out.
